Asian Man In A Westernized World

Attraction Ratios
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The most important lesson for most of my Asian students is that attraction ratios are different when you're the minority in a country. Once they understand this, I work with them on improving their confidence and and conversation skills.

One of the tools we've developed from years of study is a quick attraction tool to decipher is a girl is either: 1) not open to dating Asian guys 2) has no preference / not opposed 3) prefers Asian guys. Some of these are unconscious. Once they understand how to filter these girls, it saves a ton of time and allows them to hone in on the girls that are open to and naturally attracted to them.

Leveraging Stereotypes
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Stereotypes go both ways, and because people don't have time to get to know every stranger they see in social gatherings, quick assumptions are made. Malcolm Gladwell documents these "snap" assessments in his book "Blink".

I teach my students to not dwell on this "being Asian" thing, but also to know when to redirect that racial energy when it is consciously or unconsciously directed at us. The subtle art form and transform your previous disadvantages to really strong advantages using the powers of conversational and situational social leverage.

Relationship Calibrations
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These are 9 key relationship aspects to consider in interracial relationships that we've developed from teaching out students and our own experiences.

Calibration to these 9 aspects as well as understanding how to have healthy, strong relationships in general will help you keep and grow with your ideal dream partner.

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