Hey. I'm Giovanni. I've been a dating coach for over a decade, but when I first started trying to learn to be good with women, I had a really hard time.

As an Asian guy, here are just some of the things that change the rules for us:

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(For the full infographic breaking this down, you can download it here)

There is 1 line that I use that has consistently gotten me great replies. And it can only be used by guys like us:

"Hey I know we look like 2 completely different people, I just wanted to see if you are interesting"

This line makes your differences an advantage and the social pressure for a rejection for her, high.

Now, as with any "line", the line is simply a vehicle to the truth in social interactions. Remember:

1.No matter how good a line is, how you say it determines your success. The maxim "it' s how what you say, it' s how you say it" is 80% true.

2.The line is a tool, the same way a hammer is a tool to build things. The tool facilitates your true intention and purpose as a human being. Your intention must be to SEEK THE TRUTH IN ALL YOUR SOCIAL interactions. If you can do this, you don 't need " game "

3.That said, for guys who lack social skills, some structure is needed to find their truth.

4. Practice using this line when you are in social situations, and pretty soon, your delivery will be perfect and your social calibrations will be complete. This will help you get into genuine conversations and have a shot at attracting your dream girl.

5. Of course, there are more skills you need to master to consistently date attractive girls, so checkout the full Dating Without Borders course.

Some additional things to consider as an Asian guy:

Asian Attraction Ratios

Understanding Attraction Ratios as a minority can drastically cut negative emotions and improving core confidence quickly.

We use a simple but brilliant social tool to decipher if a girl is: 1) not open to dating Asian guys 2) has no preference / not opposed 3) prefers Asian guys. Some of these preferences are unconscious. Using Pareto's 80-20 principle, we focus on finding partners who are naturally attracted to us. Clients are able to achieve their desired results very quickly once these old rigid paradigms are transformed.

Leveraging Stereotypes

Stereotypes go both ways and I teach clients how to leverage them positively. Understanding conscious and unconsciously energies allows clients to take previous disadvantages and transform them into strong advantages using the powers of conversational and situational leverage.

Relationship Calibrations

These are 9 key aspects to consider in interracial relationships we've identified in our work with couples and singles.

We've honed our calibration to these 9 aspects in order to achieve healthy, strong and spiritually balanced long-term relationships.

You'll also develop resiliency to be on your own and this is critical when relationships don't meet your standards or don't workout.

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