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My 10 Year Journey To Dating Freedom As An Asian Guy

By Giovanni Wan | March 21, 2022

As an OG (I’m 38 now) who studied dating skills for the past 15+ years I wanted to share the steps I took to get good with women, especially as a minority in the US. I keep getting the same questions in my DMs, and so I wanted to write something memorable. I have no other…

36 Questions to Make Anyone Fall In Love

By Giovanni Wan | August 30, 2021

The Tik Tok video is here. Professor Arthur Aron developed these 36 questions along with his then researcher (and now wife) Elain Aron to see if 2 strangers can develop feelings of love by simply asking each other questions based on the concept of “gradual self exposure and vulnerability” You ask set 1 first, moving…

Balance of probabilities (with text examples)

By Giovanni Wan | January 25, 2021

In the critically acclaimed UK TV show Sherlock (2010-2017) there’s a beautiful scene where Sherlock and his brother Mycroft connect by deducing the story of a client who just left: Mycroft: Why are we playing games? Sherlock: London’s terror alert has been raised to critical. I’m just passing the time. Let’s do deductions. A client…

MPR (Minimum Physical Requirement)

By Giovanni Wan | January 25, 2021

Today I want to talk about the concept of MPR – minimum physical requirement. Let’s talk about this concept as it applies to dating. This concept is used in many types of organizations. For example in certain countries you need a minimum level of eyesight to join the air force, and you need to be…

The 8 Style Attraction Triggers

By Giovanni Wan | December 2, 2020

Looks matter to women because looks matter to everyone. But what if you’re not “traditionally good looking”? In fact, how did a skinny Asian kid like me end up dating models? This may sound overly simple, but I mastered the 8 Style Attraction Switches. These attraction switches are based on female to male attraction dynamics…

How to prep for your first in-person interview

By Giovanni Wan | September 20, 2020

90% of your success in getting the job offer is your preparation. If you are reading this post, at this stage you’ve gotten an invite to go onsite to meet with the hiring manager and the team (or to interview with the team via Zoom/WebEx for remote work) . But how do you prepare given…

The 5 style mistakes guys can fix right now

By Giovanni Wan | September 17, 2020

The 5 style mistakes guys can fix right now Everyday, whether I’m at work or socializing on the weekend I see bad style choices men make. These mistakes can be easily fixed and today I’m going to show you how. 1.  Throwing money at brands doesn’t mean you have good style The first mistake most…

7 benefits of having great style as a guy

By Giovanni Wan | August 22, 2020

1. Better first impressions First impressions are lasting impressions. People initially assess you based on the way you look because that’s the only data point available. Prejudices and mental associations often bubble up in the conscious and unconscious mind of humans. In fact, it takes conscious EFFORT to suppress our automatic assessments and judgements based…

Willingness To Walk Away

By Giovanni Wan | August 1, 2019

What is the willingness to walk away? Answer: the mindset of not focusing on a specific result or growing attached to any outcome. This applies in business, dating and life in general. To be free in this world, you must not be too attached to any outcome. There is a humble acceptance to how things…

The importance of the Buy-In

By Giovanni Wan | August 1, 2019

The importance of the Buy-In Have you ever gone to an event your friend dragged you into and you weren’t quite sure if you’re getting value out of it? Or maybe you’re going to see a doctor a friend recommended but you’re not sold on the idea of acupuncture or a chiropractor? In every social…