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36 Questions to Make Anyone Fall In Love
The Tik Tok video is here. Professor Arthur Aron developed these 36 questions along with his then researcher (and now wife) Elain Aron to see if 2 strangers can develop feelings of love by simply asking each other questions based on the concept of “gradual self exposure and vulnerability” You ask set 1 first, moving…
Balance of probabilities (with text examples)
In the critically acclaimed UK TV show Sherlock (2010-2017) there’s a beautiful scene where Sherlock and his brother Mycroft connect by deducing the story of a client who just left: Mycroft: Why are we playing games? Sherlock: London’s terror alert has been raised to critical. I’m just passing the time. Let’s do deductions. A client…
MPR (Minimum Physical Requirement)
Today I want to talk about the concept of MPR – minimum physical requirement. Let’s talk about this concept as it applies to dating. This concept is used in many types of organizations. For example in certain countries you need a minimum level of eyesight to join the air force, and you need to be…
The 8 Style Attraction Triggers
Looks matter to women because looks matter to everyone. But what if you’re not “traditionally good looking”? In fact, how did a skinny Asian kid like me end up dating models? This may sound overly simple, but I mastered the 8 Style Attraction Switches. These attraction switches are based on female to male attraction dynamics…
How to prep for your first in-person interview
90% of your success in getting the job offer is your preparation. If you are reading this post, at this stage you’ve gotten an invite to go onsite to meet with the hiring manager and the team (or to interview with the team via Zoom/WebEx for remote work) . But how do you prepare given…
The 5 style mistakes guys can fix right now
The 5 style mistakes guys can fix right now Everyday, whether I’m at work or socializing on the weekend I see bad style choices men make. These mistakes can be easily fixed and today I’m going to show you how. 1. Throwing money at brands doesn’t mean you have good style The first mistake most…
7 benefits of having great style as a guy
1. Better first impressions First impressions are lasting impressions. People initially assess you based on the way you look because that’s the only data point available. Prejudices and mental associations often bubble up in the conscious and unconscious mind of humans. In fact, it takes conscious EFFORT to suppress our automatic assessments and judgements based…
Willingness To Walk Away
What is the willingness to walk away? Answer: the mindset of not focusing on a specific result or growing attached to any outcome. This applies in business, dating and life in general. To be free in this world, you must not be too attached to any outcome. There is a humble acceptance to how things…
The importance of the Buy-In
Have you ever gone to an event your friend dragged you into and you weren’t quite sure if you’re getting value out of it? Or maybe you’re going to see a doctor a friend recommended but you’re not sold on the idea of acupuncture or a chiropractor? In every social interaction, before a social contract…
The question behind the question in job interviews
The question behind the question in job interviews One of the most important techniques to learn in successful interviewing is understanding the question behind the question. The ability to understand the real question that is being asked will increase your interview-to-offer ratio significantly. Often times you will hear generic interview questions like “what’s unique about…